Small things matter!

How often do we encounter a small gesture from someone we know or from someone who's a complete stranger? Does it have any sort of impact on you? Let's say you were walking down a busy street and accidentally bumped into somebody causing the drink you were holding to spill. Let's say that person was kind enough to lend you a tissue, all the anger that was bubbling inside you would diminish and quickly be replaced with gratitude, but what if that person didn't acknowledge the spill and walked away? You'd be bitter about it for a while right?

Small gestures can really go a long way even if it's so much as someone lending you a napkin. In a world full of digital communication, from not getting enough likes on Instagram to not responding to text messages, small gestures have increased their value, whether it's holding the door for the person behind you or simply smiling at the person sitting next to you, could make a worlds difference for them.

Appreciation can be of so many types whether it's nature which happens to be my favorite type! It may be the flavourful coffee you made while watching your favorite tv show. It could be a feeling of gratitude towards friends and family, the list is never ending only if we choose to see it!

Quite recently, I was having a conversation with my friend and she mentioned how she made the best bowl of warm oatmeal that really set the right mood for her to carry on with her day, that's when I actually realized it's the smallest things that count! It might sound strange but changes your perspective on everything! My point being, appreciation of any sort is important and always sets a positive mood for the day. It's the smallest things that matter the most right?

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