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You're enough!


  I recently heard a song called "perfect to me" by Anne-Marie and I think it's an amazing song because it talks about how it's okay to feel comfortable in your own skin, and not have to constantly worry about what people think. It's a direct and hopeful message to people going through an insecure phase, especially teens.

  I don't think it's fair to say it's our fault for having insecurities, when we're constantly surrounded by all types of unrealistic standards and goals, whether it's beauty or the idea of always having to be perfect and unflawed.

  There are alot of people that say girls are more insecure than boys which quite frankly isn't true. While girls are taught to be "perfect" , boys are taught not to show their emotions and "man up" which I think is the root of all problems.

  Unless we realize our own mistakes, it's not going to get any better or simpler, it's just going to get more complicated with each day that passes.

  While we're told by our parents on how to be confident and prioritize ourselves , we're also constantly criticized by society on everything. From not having the perfect skin color, to not being slim enough or tall enough , to not getting the perfect grades or just generaly not being good enough, there is no way to satisfy them, and we don't have to satisfy them because the list is never ending. Those people aren't worth our time, they love feeding off other people's insecurities , it makes them feel better about themselves which says alot about them as a person.

  We should set our own standards and work hard to achieve those, be happy and comfortable in our own skin because we really are extraordinary beings!
Lets stop trying to meet other people's standards and for once , meet our own standards, do things because it makes us happy and not care if it's going to raise eyebrows and doubts because at the end of the day, it's our life and we get to choose how to live it.

 There's already so many people trying to bring us down, why do WE need to do that to ourselves as well? That's called self-doubt and self-hate and the faster we recognize it, the better we'll get at replacing that with self-love and self-care!

         “Im okay with not being perfect, cuz that’s perfect to me”

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